At the sight of my rotten roots people usually turn away “you’re a lost cause” “it’ll be a waste of time to stay” they say. If they listened for a minute I would tell me them: “If you’re gentle with me and water me with low pressure mist me and let me breathe those drops of care slowly seep into me. And if you lift me and begin to untangle me I will love you freely and I will grow and my rotten roots will not be the death of me trust me and you will see.” But by then they are already on their way and my words are delivered only to my rotten roots.
When I was younger, I overwatered a plant, out of love but not with care, and gave it plant rot. It was an accident but with a little bit of care and research it could have been avoided. We saved the plant and it's still alive on my kitchen side. Everyone has roots that we cannot see. We should be gentle with each other to help one another heal and grow.