That is what it is like when somebody loves you more than you love yourself. You find you're loving them, and in loving you trust, both them and their judgment.
If he loves me for me, and I love and trust him, then I should love myself just the way that I am.
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I want to be the one he is deserving of, and I want to become the best version of me.
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It's not just for his sake that I want to improve. I'll grow and change for him, but also for myself.