I want someone that respects my opinion,; and not just my right to have one. I want someone who stands by me; despite any differences of opinion. I want someone who trusts me to make all sorts of mistakes. I want someone that doesn't need me to understand. I want somebody that looks me in the eyes as we ****. I want someone that's respects my right to say no it's not for me. I want someone who is polite; and not rude or unkind. I want love & reassurance, reducing any risk that's frightening. I want loyalty and someone who also seeks, this basic remit.