"Once you have found it keep your Voice on you at all times," my Uncle told me, "you never know when you might need it. Do not entrust it to anyone else - they won't value it the way that you do.
"And do not leave your Voice where they can steal it, but slip it in your inside breast pocket, close to your quiet heart - where you can reach for it at a moment's notice, and when the moment comes, you take it out with a steady hand and you let them see that your Voice is not lost, it is not tired, that it lies ready that it is willing to speak truth to power, to voice comfort to the powerless and sing in chorus with quieter voices." And he patted my hand, "You'll know. You'll know."
Years later, when I found my Voice far from where my Uncle had sat, I knew it was mine from its familiar shape and weight in my throat, from the way it resonated with the call I had suppressed and the way it chimed with the voices of those who chose to stand with me.
And now that I've found it, I exercise my Voice in song, I practice it in comfort and I school it in truth and I always keep it close to our quiet hearts where they cannot steal it from us.
'Finding my voice' takes time. I recommend 'Search for My Voice' by Felicity Ann Alma and 'A Portable Paradise' by Roger Robinson.