I hug my mother most in the kitchen. She reaches up to wrap her arms around me, and I lay my head on her shoulder. We breathe together, relax into one another. The oak wood under our feet creaks with each shift of weight. The kitchen is
warm like her. Though that dead plant sits in the window, we are full of life. My mother’s fake green grapes and strands of ivy weave above our heads; our own personal jungle. The red-brown cabinets and bright yellow lights shine down around us as we sway, rubbing each others’ backs with a soft hum.
We fit together: mother, daughter. Since childhood I have not been afraid to run to her soft speckled skin and be held by her, even when I was tall enough to do the holding myself. We have the same nose, same smile, same droop to our right eye. Same tendency to accidents like knife cuts or oven burns or trips over nothing. Who am I but a part of her?
My sister pads into the kitchen on tiptoes— a habit she could never break since a child. I see her quiet eyes flicker downward, see her scoot herself away from my mother’s arms see her close into herself instead. She stares at the dead plant.
If her skin were a costume, she would tear it off and never wear it again. Instead of my mother’s nose, she thinks she sees my father’s stubble. Not my mother’s dimpled smile reflected back, but my father’s Adam’s apple. When we tell her she is beautiful, she fiddles with her men-sized shoes. We cannot convince her to touch us when she is afraid to touch herself.
We fit together: mother, daughter, daughter. We sit at the island counter, playing MarioKart on the kitchen TV, talking about nothing really, but to my sister it is everything. Our mother laughs like bells. Who are we but a part of her?