It is true pain changes people. But you know what pain also does; it hurts you, it breaks you, it drains you, it disconnects you from the people around you at times.
It sometimes makes you feel like giving up on your life. But maybe that's just a phase.
Maybe we have to break to heal. Maybe we have to fall to rise. Maybe we give up to fight. Maybe we have to make mistakes to learn. Maybe we have to tear to be courageous.
Maybe we have to go through chaos to find peace. Maybe we have to feel weak to be strong. Maybe we have to get messed up before we step up. Maybe going down was a part of the plan of rising up once again better.
Pain brings out the worst, the best and sometimes it is just different. And you get to choose who you get to cast yourself as.
You get to pick up those pieces and place them the way you want to be. Sometimes it isn't bad, it isn't good, it's just different. And that's alright.