Why do I care what you think or how you feel about what I say or do? Should I, especially at my age? But is not interaction itself the mutual influencing of behavior? So when I speak to you and you to me we are changing each other just as the morning breeze bends the young Chinese Tallows shaking each spring leaf as if to say, “Wake up tree, its time to grow!” and the Tallow whispers, "Blow winds blow." Caring just means I am human and in spite of everything I am glad about that.