darling please don't ever be afraid to feel because feeling is beautiful feeling is one of the most human things we could do so, it's okay it's okay to feel hurt, sadness, anger, happiness, loneliness, fear...feel everything all I ask is that you don't sit there with the negative feelings sit on the joy and happiness and let it fill you up and spill from your pores and gather at everything you touch that is absolutely beautiful and darling don't let the negative emotions sit with you they can come and visit and be the rare guest, that's okay to feel that is to be human but to let it move in and be permanently attached is not something i suggest because it won't spill out of your pores, it will consume the hatred and hurt and anger, will just take everything from you there are so many people in this world who have let the negativity consume them and they have become lost inside it please be the rare butterfly that spills good the world needs more people like that, darling please always strive to be the good