'I don't think you're doing as well as you could' it's a sign of trust, of faith, of thinking you're able to do better, to be better, to achieve more.
'I don't think this is what you deserve' Seeing someone else's potential, seeing they're not reaching it, seeing they are not getting what they should be getting.
'Your achievements don't measure up to what society expects of you' Improve, do your best, try to fit in. You might be different but it's not the worst, you can do better.
'At this point in time, it's just out of pity' There's something wrong with you, and you don't get it. You're not deserving, but you don't get it yet. This is a favour, but have you earned it?
This is my heart breaking, but have you earned the right to do so? Do you deserve that power? Do you deserve me?
I never needed pity. I just needed your friendship.