I should not feel ashamed of what I wear in public. I should not fear wandering eyes and side ways expressions – looking me up and down like I am an object to be toyed with. I should not have to avoid unwanted glances from those who think they are superior and feel they have a right to what I show of myself.
no one has a right to me. no one has a say in what I wear or how I think or how I choose to portray myself. I am a sixteen year old girl. a sixteen year old girl who should never be petrified of wearing shorts in ninety degree weather. a sixteen year old girl who shouldn’t be harassed for the said objectification of her own body. a girl who shouldn’t be told that she was asking for it and it was her fault for revealing her own skin.
but their eyes still wander. they wander across my body like an animal hunting for prey and it doesn’t matter if I’m covered or hiding in the best way I possibly can. to them, I am still weak. easy. and they know that they will forever have the upper hand. and if I try to use my voice it will only be beaten by the fact that
I was asking for it, and I am the one who chose to portray myself in such a way to tempt those around me. and whatever occurred after was, and always will be, my fault.