Most people don't go on traditional dates They are too afraid to go on blind dates Too afraid to go on multiple dates Potential couples fear rejection So they text each other how they feel Being spontaneous has lost a lot of meaning At least it will be a Facebook post A Facebook post to show status A Facebook post to brag about seeing someone Texting can ruin relationships Texting leads to miscommunications People rush to put labels on their thing Because most people are too insecure to not have some form of security saying that he's mine
I wish I could go back in time Where dating wasn't a constant battle A constant battle of showing your interest While remaining distant enough to avoid suffocating the spark Where you didn't have to worry about a good morning text Where if you wanted to talk to someone you would call them Where it was just you and them and not all your Facebook friends Whom always put their two cents into where you two should be at Where relationships weren't built over text and then destroyed in person Oh how I wish I could go back in time
Kind of a ranty "poem." Today I came to the realization that I have never gone on a blind date or a traditional date where I know very little about the person before going out with them. So today i tried messaging someone on tinder and told them that I want to go on a traditional date instead of learning about one another through text. I told them they could pick the restaruant and I would pay. Then they told me that would be moving too fast for them...... I laughed so hard when she sent me that. It wasn't like I was inviting her over to my house for dinner. Dating has become such a **** show nowadays.