Take me to Rome. And then we can say "When in Rome, do as the Romans do." But you already do as the Romans do, because you conquer me.
Take me to Paris. And then we could learn how to correctly French kiss, and ironically eat French fries. But then you'll look at the French girls and think "Could I conquer them?"
I'll reply with a passive request to go sight see. I'll look at you and you'll look at them. Then when we travel home, you'll settle and I'll smile.