When writing about oneself ceases to scratch that awful self-absorbed itch,
and the heart realizes that writing about others and what they've done to us is the same itch masked in a fresh disguise,
the trail of words leads away from "I" --
like breadcrumbs dropped at intervals for poetic feet to follow --
-- at last finding the untamed
where one is more than a mouthpiece for sorrow or rage,
for ignorant opinion or self-righteous argument --
where the horizons are bounded not by fear but imagination --
The irony: what one keeps thinking about, one keeps thinking about convinced that integrity depends on never letting go.
Egotism fettered by a soul feels sorriest for itself.
Ruminating about oneself and one's problems creates the habit of unhappiness. What we think about shapes our perceptions.
If we think about nothing but ourselves - our comfort, our entertainment, our disappointments, whether others please us - should it be any wonder that life is unfulfilling?
My advice to all seekers of self-knowledge, wisdom, happiness, and truth: