When the rain drops into your eye, and you just gaze longingly at the sky. During a heated argument with your lover, you simply stare blankly at one another. Meaningless words trickle past your teeth, and there's no way to shove them beneath.
It is that moment you realize... The opposite of love is not hatred, but apathy, and the lack of a hug.
So pick yourself up off your sorry fat ***, before all happy opportunities come to pass! Blink your eyes, hug your lover, hold your angry words. For settling in apathy---I can't think of much worse!