In case no one told you today, I just wanted to remind you that I love you. I hope that you're happy and healthy.
Your existence matters and you belong....!
It's not your job to fix damaged people....!
Your responsibility to help someone will never outweigh their responsibility to help themselves.
But, it's worth asking yourself why you resonated so strongly with someone that needed "fixing" so desperately in the first place.
Often, our own toxic romantic and non-romantic attachments to tell a story about an issue we have within ourselves...!
If you're happy alone, you'll be happier together....!
There's no type of affection that can fill the void in a person who doesn't love themselves already.
There's no independence in dependency.
There is no personal security in attaching yourself to a secure person.
Until you have a healthy relationship with yourself, you won't make healthy decisions about someone else....!
Last pt left....!
Closure is your choice.
Closure isn't an apology, or justice, or answers.
If the situation made you feel awful, seeking closure by reopening , it's insanity.
Closure isn't something they can give you.
Closure is moving on. Closure is your own choice.
Pt.7 is on its way
Call yourself out....!
The most reason why people keep making the same mistakes is because their insecure ego prevents them from taking responsibility for their own *******, their own toxic traits and their own mistakes.
You have to call yourself out.
Calling yourself out means you care more about your future, your progress and your happiness, than just protecting your ego....!
Pt.6 coming soon...!
Taking no risk is the biggest risk....!
You have to risk failure to succeed.
You have to risk rejection to be accepted.
You have to risk heartbreak to love.
If you're always avoiding risk, you're risking missing out on life....!
Pt.5 is coming soon....!
If they really wanted to, they would....!
If you apply pressure, they'll do what you want them to do.
If you take the pressure off, you'll see what they'd rather do.
Never waste your life fighting someone would rather do.
Let them go. Move on. Do better.
Pt.4 is on its way...!