We cannot make people be or become what they are not. Therefore, because we cannot change them we must let them be and continue showing us who they are. We cannot pressure others into our mold of who we would like them to be or how we believe they should be. That is not healthy. Let’s leave them to their own devices and if we do wish for them to change we can think about altering our mental reactions to them and allow them the time and space to reflect the change. Be brave, learn your own sense of courage, and discover what you’re looking for through what you personally relate to.
People will not change for you, and you cannot change them so be kind to yourself and do not put undue pressure on yourself to make that happen. Accept and let go. You will feel much better.