A friend recently made a joke recently about something very personal I told them that I was dealing with and even the the joke was unintentional and I wasn't meant to get hurt...it did hurt a lot. (Also its not quite that they didn't care..more that they never even noticed how angry and upset I was about something to do with them-it was blatantly obvious but..nope) it's okay though we're still close friends,it just hurt a lot is all. Also it's just for anyone who's been in one of those kind of situations or similar. Always appreciate feedback/thoughts :)