Yin and Yang Active and Passive Positive and Negative Good and bad Happy and sad Agree and disagree Yes and no Satisfaction and dissatisfaction Success and failure
As far as I see it, There are three options. Black, and white, and grey.
You draw the line between what seems like direct opposites, You decide what you want to be, You decide what you want to feel. And when you can't, You lie within the grey space, But it's okay.