I poked a bear, Because he was sleeping in a tar pit. The bear woke and cried and yelled, "Why would you dare wake my slumber!" I responded to the bear, "For you were sinking in a pit of dark." And the bear cried some more, Then dragged himself from his sticky smelly bed, Just so he could throw tar at my home. Then he walked right backed, kicked rocks at me, And laid back in his pit again.
Do not try to help a man who does not want to be helped. It will chip his ego and he will dedicate himself to chipping yours.