why is it statements people say in passing that shouldn’t mean anything, feel substantial to me? all this man said was His honey do list has never been shorter He had so much time this summer to get it all done I fell apart immediately everyone I know has a husband who takes care of her, the way he spent his time off doing things for his wife, how he thought of her, he was clearly thoughtful of her, it’s the little things people do and say about their person that I notice and I realize it’s because no one does it for me