Don't remember me for what I ain't When death decides to still my aching heart; Don't picture me as if I were a saint, Or treat me diff'rently when I depart.
Recall the good, but don't forget the bad, And remember that you loved me all the same; Remember that I sometimes drove you mad, Or that βsometimesβ I was the one to blame.
Don't make me out to be some perfect person, What never made an error, great or small, Or else you'll be rememberin' a version Of me that never existed at all.
I think it's important to remember and accept that everybody we love is perfectly imperfect.