When I was little, my mother often threw me snakes into the bed so I could play. I picked them up, lifted and squeezed them, preventing from reaching my face. They opened mouths, trying to push air through their throats. With a woman in bed, when I get out of her hands, I sometimes fall, grab the last in the fist. Clench my tongue, twist my back; turn blue. Then I donβt let the air out, scratch my neck. Pretend it was a snake bite. Play around.