become immovable, a wall of unimaginable strength too tall to see over and too wide to walk around. become undeniable; do not mewl, howl. become so vast you cannot be looked past, shoulders so broad you cannot be held with one arm. do not drown yourself in the tide of a man who would not **** on you if you were burning. cultivate a culture of talking back. cornering. countering. refusing and defying. become unwavering. become brave. become angry. become loud. not because you are bitter but because you deserve the things you've been denied. become immovable.