Do you see the generation today, my generation struggling emotionally having jarred into their heads that it's not okay to cry that it's not good to cry that it's going to be alright if you would just stop crying if you would just wipe the tears off that crying is for the weak (oh my son is not weak) that crying wouldn't help that crying is for the enemies my generation was served a lie on the platter and we gulped it down our throats without a thought so that if we ever choke with tears we'd gulp the lie over and over again but mothers and fathers look yourselves in the eye and tell me if shedding a few tears didn't turn down your grief and tell me if shedding a few tears made you any less a man made you any less a woman made you any less a human Mothers and fathers look your children in the eye and tell them crying is just another emotion that has the ability to sit down with your heart in moments of grief and be the friend it needs the most. tell them crying is for the strong crying is for those who feel crying is for everyone tell them crying is okay. crying is good.