If you crossed her and I in the halls you'd never think... never once would it cross your mind that she is indeed not sick. You all make assumptions. Often wrong. Yes, it is true her head is bare. No, she is not dying. No, she doesn't do it to revolt against people. She doesn't do it to stand out. No, absolutely no, it does not concern you or affect the quality of your life any. Before you judge a person. Before you give her your condolences. Think... just take a moment to think. It doesn't involve you. If you don't know ask. Don't assume.