Not from eating ice cream, buying new shoes, hearing a joke, Kissing a mate, Swimming in a lake, Living in a bigger house, Or Driving a fancier car.
*The more we rely on the material world for happiness , the further we dig ourselves into an endless pit. For when one thing is gained, example that car, you are temporarily satisfied. Then a new want arises , a new goal that makes you think " okay when I get THaT THEENN I will be happier"
And so it continues until you never settle with your idea of happiness.
Thus it is good to realize sooner rather than later- that true happiness is just a misleading term for absolute contentment .
Such Contentment that you learn to take the bad as you take the good. Always remaining in the middle, unaffected by any external matter. You always looked pleased. You never desire more. You take what you get, enjoy it gratefully, if you get more you are pleased- if you do not get a single bit more, would you know it-you're still pleased.
It is brilliant really, and so simple. The goal is never to be happy. The goal is be contented. At least it should be. Me thinks..