conflict is eternal, present, real. To attain peace is not to erase conflict, but to accept it, not to embrace your enemy as a friend, but to accept that he is as he is, **** him, and move on.
Harsh, I know. Forgive the roughness of this poem. Its starkness may help you to understand. Peace cannot be the absence of conflict, but rather the acceptance of conflict. To have peace is not to have joy, merely calm, and an acceptance of what comes. One must choose whether one desires conflict unaccepted, and the attainability of joy, or if one desires peace and acceptance, and nothing.