The wringer is no place for a damaged shirt to be. It may be torn or ripped in its most fragile state. It may not come back to you the same as it did when it entered, losing a part of what it was. But you have no choice, because it's the only shirt you have and you need it today. You need it everyday. But every time you put your shirt through the wringer, you're risking the loss. Be patient. Be gentle. your old shirt. It's all you have. If you loose it then what? Set it out to dry and let it be.
Be patient and gentel with yourself, you're all you have.