The only way to create Oneself is to try new things, for One never knows what it is that may become, some day, a part of who One is.
One will never know what works, nor, most importantly, why, unless One is willing to experiment honestly and venture readily into unfamiliar territory.
Though, it is not the act of delving into the unknown that's difficult, it is coming back with something of value to either yourself or those around you or, ideally, both, without getting lost in the process.
Aye, there's the rub.
Written on napkins at work, with a calligraphy pen, nonetheless.