Not every ending shatters. Some slip away unnoticed, like the laughter of friends you once swore were forever, or the games you played until one day your hands simply forgot how to hold them.
Even the self you thought permanent fades like an old photograph, edges softening until you hardly recognize who you used to be.
No farewells were spoken. Just mornings that arrived without the familiar faces, without the rituals of yesterday. And slowly, you learn you will not return.
But the silence is not empty. New voices echo there, new habits root themselves in soil you didn’t know was waiting. They fill the hollow, bright and unexpected, until they, too, become memories you will one day set down.
Perhaps life is less about holding on than it is about loosening our grip, enough to welcome the next arrival, enough to let each goodbye be gentle.
I had a shower thought that how much of life is just learning to say goodbye