We are our parents' children deep down inside we inherit their DNA and mannerisms And the rules that they abide
As children we watch closely to what they say and do We soak it up, the good and bad Each behavior we curiously view
So if one's mother is gentle and kind Then one shall almost surely be But if she is cruel and fickle and rude Then these traits unfortunately we may see
And if one's father patient and steady Then one truly has a shot But if he is angry or hateful or harsh Then these things will one be taught
Oft I have wondered of my own life And who I'll turn out to be Will my own generational trauma continue Or will it end with me?
Spending time with my grandparents helps me to understand a bit more why my mother is the way she is.