My first was the name my mother wielded, but she later conceded I had an earlier name, a longer name that my father gave me, a name borrowed from the long dead, the name authorities would know me by.
And later, you adorned me with shorter, snappier names - names loaded with love names that could be sung and in which I took comfort and pride.
When as a student I arrived, wheeling cases through customs, I saw the linguistic gymnastics reflected in their eyes but I kept silent and smiled, lest they felt they fell short lest they sensed that I found fault in their command of each element of my name.
But the truth is I hold my true names elsewhere, in my place of song and friendships far from these shores.
I have several names and accumulate more each year as I spare acquaintances the shame of verbal stumbles.
I have several names, but I know who I am with you.
Many of my friends who have had the courage to migrate carry many names.