The journey to find out "your identity" of who you are,is often a difficult one....if You Realise that we AREN'T all the "same" it doesn't mean ur less of a good person-doesnt mean you don't deserve acceptance but does mean that you are WORTHY-....If God intended us to "be" All the same-we would never have had been given "free will".. Be aware that the truest of essence whom you were ment to be-is GOD GIVEN-change the characteristics you can change-and believe that He created you unto His Plan,...yes you were intended to be what you discover-for whom knows the thoughts and will of God,to doubt that He has laid ur path out accordingly,all you need do,is become the "casted  actor"in this play God calls life!!"For all the world is a stage-and we are mearely actors"