Everyone wants to be accepted But no one wants to be loved. Accepting every attribute about a person and not discerning right from wrong, Cannot be loving. "Oh I'm accepted, I must be loved" But that kind of acceptance is out of fear of not being accepted in return. To allow a person to self destruct either acutely or chronically cannot be considered an act of love. Love can be a constructive criticism or a soft spoken word. But if someone really loves, they will not hinder the truth even if it hurts. everyone wants to be accepted, no one wants to be loved, Because the world has redefined the true meaning of love.