We soften our No's with Thank You's and apologies We have to tell you we're important to people like Mother and Father before you see us as valuable It's like being Someone's daughter is more important than just being Someone. But we're privileged, of course We can have jobs like you and isn't Free the Nip a thing, too? 'Feminism is outdated' you say to all the women you claim you never hated You tell her to cover up (she's just feeding her baby) but you never think to look away You use the bible as your excuse but never want to pluck out your eye or pay for your version of the truth What's wrong with her? Why is she so rude? That's a funny question to ask Let's not ask it twice when so many women have bled (and died, or worse) for the simple act of being nice.