Do you ever escape your grief? Do you every find release from sorrow? I can’t say today, perhaps tomorrow, but today I’m growing round my loss - not diminishing its presence, but recognising that my present is not my finish and that I add to this grief: my joy, reminiscence, and celebration of those who are no longer at my surface, but remain my foundation.
Do you ever escape? I think not – I hope not. For they are not a shackle, but where I found my feet.
The anniversaries of loss come around and fall in the echo of more recent losses. I'm grateful for passed friends and family who helped make me me.