i always feel as if i'm locked outside of some magical paradise where everything is better. happier. easier. maybe the door open if i'd eat less exercise more learn how to talk to people (to let people in) dress better have more money (more friends) be less lazy, boring, useless, dumb (*******) i'd love to enter that paradise someday, and feel my problems fall away from me, like taking off a bra after a long day.