That young man in the photograph Of course it’s much more poignant now he’s dead. Alive there was always hope… some promise. Some light at the end of the tunnel to make things right. But now the obituary, the eulogy, the excuses, the anguish, the recriminations, the blame game, the ‘if onlys’. None of that will bring him back for another run at life.
So best get it sorted. These are real people, real lives, real ambitions we are dealing with… This is not a rehearsal. This is not a project or a thesis in your sociology degree. This is a young hopeful's life. You’ve badged it hope ‘less’. Now it might just be a failure for you, a pause in your career, but it’s a bereavement for his mum, his dad, his grans, his grandads and most of all, I always think - for me!
I am looking down - now that I’m up here… Well it’s too late for me - but please spend a bit more time getting IN when you feel I’ve locked you OUT. I was confused, abused, a user, a drug abuser who felt befuddled… needed to be nurtured, encouraged...metaphorically cuddled! Unless that EARLY MORNING TOKER can kick the skunk and what often follows it down, then we will just keep going… round and round and round.
My grandson is in a spiral of drug abuse... shuns help because another joint is easier and more enjoyable and amenable than well meaning counsellors.