it confuses me daily that so many people are having *** even at this very moment, i'm sitting in a book store sipping coffee that burnt at first sip where are they? in their homes? in public? i'm avoiding it, not on purpose that's just how its worked itself out there in the moment with them its exciting adrenalin in pumping and all thats left is to strip yet i won't let it happen i feel the rush and the chills but that's it the closest i've ever got to feeling what you call '*****' it all started with a cuddle he said it best himself, don't cuddle, you'll catch feelings no ****. probably could have went a few more years but he was drunk and all he asked was for me to stay to cuddle and that's what we did all night i woke to him in a slight sweat and it happened i then knew what you are supposed to feel in those moments after that, he messed me up now i can't handle him grabbing my hip to move me out the way he can sit too close and there it is again what the hell? and other people have felt this since they were preteens?! i would burst what i don't get is why it never happened again other boys/other girls kisses/bites/touches no one makes me feel the same that feeling is what has been missing why i couldn't say yes i feel nothing with them, so i sit there fully dressed he won't get too close it's funny because he doesn't remember us we were laying nose to nose on new years, what i wanted happened we kissed in the mix of the dozen lips we got home and yet nothing happened i didn't want to take advantage of our blurred visions one day i hope i get it the feeling he gave me he may never say yes but i'll always have that feeling **** demisexuality