"She suffers with depression". What do you see right now? In your mind's eye? I know what you see. You see a pale, skinny but beautiful girl curled up in their bed all sad and crying into the arms of a parent/lover/friend. Let me tell you something. That's not what it looks like. Depression is not romantic. That girl hasn't showered for three days. Her room smells. Her hair is greasy and unkempt. She isn't crying. She's binge eating while watching TV episodes into the night.