children play with lots of toys that help them find their passion - or what isn’t their passion - a little girl may dress up dolls and find a love of fashion design or a little boy may play with cars and dream about driving nascar.
alternatively a little girl may play a game of operation and decide she never wants to be a doctor or a little boy may play on a sports team and realize he never wants to be an athlete.
me? i’m not the little girl finding her dreams or dislikes. i’m the one being used by boys to find what they don’t like in a girl. i’m not a person to them, i’m a toy. they use what they like, critique my flaws, and return me saying i’m just not what they really wanted. no concern for my emotions, only worried about using me until i’ve served my purpose of helping them find what they don’t want in a girl