fall in love with a man with arms like beacons in the night that promise safe harbor with eyes that glint with mirth and optimism with hands that cannot get enough of you with a voice that soothes with sturdy roots and a healthy relationship with his mother with a man who understands pain and understands that it doesn't last forever and understands that joy is the same who cherishes the tiny beautiful things fall in love with a man who is thankful and makes you laugh that makes you feel welcome that has stories to tell and who listens to yours