some gifts our mothers gave us we seem sometimes to forget
not the teachings of how to be kind or safe
not even the gift of love
that...
we don't usually mistake
though quite important not her wise advice
not her bedtime kisses or soft lullabies
all these we usually give much sway
rightly so we should be thankful each day
but...
I wonder if when you
look in the mirror do you see her within
is she in your eyes or your smile
do you have the same shade of skin
did she give you her sense of humor
did she give you her laugh or her voice
do you see her hands when you look at your own
of course, for these she had no choice
still...
how you walk stand or sit
your height and your size
your color of hair
your color of eyes
all these and more she gave you by being a lover or wife
and giving to you the greatest gift the amazing gift of life.
My mother's been gone many years, but every once in awhile I catch myself using an expression of hers, seeing her hands or some other feature in myself. I think maybe these are the things one ponders more when their mother is no longer alive. Happy Mothers' Day, Mom!