Pinpricks on exposed skin barely causing a flinch Ravine like gashes excruciating and unbearable. But both are pain Is one more valid than another? Is a sister more sensitive than a brother? Letting those pinpricks pierce her heart Or does the brother just hide it from the start? Must the pain be physical to be real? So must oneβs emotions make a physical deal? These are some formidable questions answered not by scholars but by the ones who feel