When you make a memory use the very best materials available, select the ingredients carefully, mix them patiently, take your time and over time, as you hone your craft, you will make less mistakes and create something perfect.
When you make a memory take each opportunity as it arises, don't hesitate, but be ready to grasp each moment, each nettle, whatever's to hand and to celebrate the here and the now - don't be tempted to wait for that perfect moment, because it's here.
The most precious memories can come slow or fast. Whatever way works for you.