is there healing in the story ...in the telling will the pain diminish and dull it as memory fades or add and create new meaning and terror
what sort of healing does retelling grind off the sharp and jagged smoothing off the splinters and planing off the rough leaving a polished version, a diamond formed from tragedy and grief
be careful what you say it can seem enticing a promise of healing to tell your story to willing ears with open arms will giving words to the pain lead to a burden shared or deepen the wounds that that slosh around in your head