They talk about those cliches the "one who got away" he ripped off his chains, and threw them down while planning his escape the moat, it was guarded the barriers had been built, the castle walls too high to climb, compact with sand and silt this is what seems to happen when an escape is poorly planned they often end up stripped of skin and buried in the sand
This is what comes out when your heart is broken and you are four books deep into Game of Thrones