two loves compared mine and yours your man buys you things in exchange for you to do ****** things my man loves me and tells me everyday "what would I do without you today?" your man has a few cars well at at least my man doesn't go to the bar at least he's not close in age to my friends dad either writing this is even making me mad I need a breather for heavens sake you need time alone, by yourself, to learn yourself "I've always been this way, never alone" a quote directly from you I don't see why a potential independant women needs someone you've turned to a monster I don't know you anymore going against everything our parents have taught us just to hear your man go "cha-Ching" "I'm tired of getting called a gold digger" well I'm sorry but unless you can prove it im gonna be bitter two loves compared, yours and mine my lover and I took time we learned about eachothers ways and didn't sleep together at the first gaze I can prove I love my man cause he doesn't have much but himself for me your man has always given you crap, from purses to bras and now will come curses my man doesn't need me all the time and i don't need him, just keep that in mind. all you are is leaning on him, money & sin, I mean that's how your relationship did begin? don't try to tell me he cares about you he cares if your staying the night because if he cares he would know that you need family too and that's what he has taken away from you!