not long ago I met woman with a secret we talked ideas and shared words she lent me a book and gave me movies she had made we met a few times and discussed things once I said that I was a bit down she said "We have to be positive"
now she's dead that was her C secret nobody knew but one good friend who found my number on her phone
so I say thank you to the world for people like that in my life who create gifts rather than gripe
margaret you really mattered to me
True story, lovely person and I am glad I am open to such people