I have been told plenty of times by plenty of guys that they love how submissive I am, but that it could get me into real trouble one day.
Oh, little do they know that it has gotten me in trouble long, long ago my submissive nature made me afraid to say no before I had given the situation any kind of second thought I had told him that anything goes.
That "anything goes" left me aware of my worth; maybe not to others, because it was myself that was hurt.